Jess Meyers, associate marriage family therapist, LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, autism, ADHD

Jess Myers, AMFT #155232

Supervised by:
Bonnie Landau Weed, LPCC CA#13456

INSURANCES ACCEPTED

Jess accepts insurance and private pay.

As a queer-identifying clinician, I bring a compassionate, affirming, and inclusive approach to therapy, honoring the diverse identities and lived experiences of the LGBTQIA+ community and beyond.

I am deeply committed to building genuine rapport and trust, creating a therapeutic space where clients feel fully seen, supported, and valued in their authentic selves.

My practice is grounded in LGBTQ+ and neurodiversity-affirming principles, informed by my B.A. in Women’s Studies and its emphasis on social justice, intersectionality, and feminist frameworks. My graduate training in Depth Psychology has enriched my understanding of the unconscious forces that shape our inner and relational worlds. From a psychodynamic perspective, I work collaboratively with clients to explore the patterns, motivations, and early trauma that influences their emotional lives and relationships.

In addition to psychodynamic work, I integrate Family Systems theory and Internal Family Systems (IFS) modalities, approaches that support clients in navigating internal conflicts and relational dynamics with clarity, compassion, and self-leadership. My skills in attunement, active listening, and culturally competent, curious counseling allow me to adapt to each client’s unique needs and strengths.

Whether you are seeking support for LGBTQ+ and/or neurodivergent identity exploration, relationship concerns, trauma healing, or personal growth, I strive to offer a therapeutic relationship rooted in empathy, curiosity, and collaboration; one that fosters healing, resilience, and empowerment.

If you’re curious about working together, I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation. It’s a chance for us to connect and see if we’re a good fit.

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LGBTQIA+ Support

Are you looking for a supportive space to explore your identity and experiences as an LGBTQIA+ individual? Therapy can offer a compassionate and affirming environment to navigate relationship challenges, family dynamics, or the lasting impact of trauma. With a therapist who honors and celebrates your authentic self, you can work toward healing, self-discovery, and stronger, more fulfilling connections in your life.

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Neurodivergent-Affirming

Are you the parent of a child who is neurodivergent? Are you struggling with parenting choices, getting support, and navigating the special education system? These one-on-one or 2-parent sessions are an opportunity to gain knowledge and resources from a parent who has been there.

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Complex Trauma

Are you struggling with emotional regulation, anxiety, difficulties with trusting others, or low self-esteem? Do you have a history of repeated traumatic events or chronic stressors? You may be struggling with Complex Traumaa. I am here to help you resolve the triggers and help you regain calm and a sense of well-being in your life. I can support you in finding relief and reclaiming your sense of well-being.

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Grief

Are you finding it hard to move forward after a recent loss? Grief can be overwhelming, disorienting, and often makes daily life feel impossible. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one, a pet, a relationship, a job, or something else, the weight of grief can make it tough to navigate day-to-day responsibilities. Rachel can support you as you process your feelings and help you find your way through this difficult time.

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Life Transitions

Are you feeling overwhelmed by a big life change? Whether you’ve recently graduated, are experiencing a divorce, or are making a career shift later in life, transitions can be tough and sometimes overwhelming. Rachel has the expertise to bring the right support to navigate these changes so they can feel more manageable. She is here to help you move through this period with as much ease and clarity as possible.

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Anxiety & Depression

Are you struggling with constant worry, panic attacks, or a fear that something bad will happen? Perhaps you feel weighted down with depression, or a chronic, low-grade sadness that makes it challenging to get through the day. These feelings can be exhausting, overwhelming, and really impact day-to-day life. You don’t have to face them alone. Rachel is here to support you in finding relief and reclaiming your sense of well-being.

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Are you in crisis?

If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm, or in danger of harm from others, reach out to these organizations for immediate support.

Cal-FURS (833) 939-3877

California state hotline for family and youth. Available 24/7/365.

CONTACT

Thriving Spirit Counseling
Bonnie Landau Weed, LPCC, PPS
LPCC #13456
admin@thrivingspirit.net
P: 805-669-6106   |   F: 805-710-8882

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